Couples therapy
Are you concerned the connection you once shared is now lost?
Do you want a relationship with less stress and more mutal understanding? The couples therapist of It takes two will help you and your partner to communicate better. Put a stop to endless conflict and find new ways to connect and move forward.
First who…..then how!
Meet the couples therapist first
It’s important to us that you feel at ease with your therapist. Not the treatment method, but the connection between you and your couples therapist is key. Only when you both feel safe and comfortable you’ll start therapy with complete openness and total honesty.
For this reason we offer a free, 30 minute, online intake. Get to now the therapist, ask all your questions and experience hands on if couples therapy and our psychologists feel right for you.
Eerst wie, dan hoe!
Welke therapeut kan onze relatie helpen verbeteren?
Bij ons staat de aanpak niet centraal maar de klik tussen jullie en de therapeut. Pas als het klikt en jullie een basis van vertrouwen ervaren kunnen we aan de slag.
Om deze reden bieden we een vrijblijvende kennismaking aan. Een gesprek van 45 minuten waarbij jullie kennis kunnen maken met de therapeut en al jullie vragen kwijt kunnen.
“The quality of your life ultimately depends on the quality of your relationships.”
“The more we trust, the farther we are able to venture.”
– Esther Perel –
Way of working
Steps in couples therapy
Rebuild trust and desire
Free intake
Meet the therapist, check ‘the connection’ and ask all your questions regarding method.
Who are you and how can you help us? What is couples therapy all about? What about the costs etc?
First session
Whats happening? Reviewing the immediate cause or the pattern that has emerged.
What’s the behavior that we see and what effect does this have on the other partner and the relationship?
Session 2 to 5
Unraveling the pattern, underlying needs and restoring trust and connection.
From blaming the othere towards expressing your own needs and fears and inviting your partner te respond.
Consolidation of Change
Work together towards more vulnarability and safety. Facilitate the emergence of new solutions to old problematic relationship issues.
Practice new ways of responding and interacting. Showing vulnerability in order to receive sincere acceptance and appreciation..
Booking tool
Shedule a free, non binding intake
Using Calendly you can pick a date and time for a introduction meeting. Get to now the therapist, ask all your questions and experience hands on if couples therapy and our psychologists feel right for you.
Praktijkgegevens - Amsterdam
Monday & Friday
Herengracht 560
1017 VJ Amsterdam
Praktijkgegevens - Amsterdam
Erik Schell – Wednesday, Thursday
Emmaplein 7A
1075 AW Amsterdam
Praktijkgegevens - Amsterdam
Vanessa Lamsvelt – Tuesday, Wednesday
Keizersgracht 579D
1017DR Amsterdam